'Creating ceremony where nature, spirit and love merge...'

Ceremony, by definition, 'is a formal religious or sacred observance; a solemn rite or ritual’. It is an ancient practice which has been sadly removed from modern western society. 

We have become more focused on obtaining the latest technology instead of gaining spiritual growth. Technology, yet wonderful, unfortunately for some has emerged as our new ‘religion’ (consider how you would feel if you lost your iphone or had to live without a plasma TV). Yet why do many of us still feel like something is missing in daily life, a spiritual void?

Could the reason that modern societies framework is in such turmoil be due to our current lack of family tradition and ceremonial practice?

Our ancestors performed many ceremonies. They gave thanks for abundant crops, rain and sun and celebrated the changing of seasons with excitement and vigor.

More recently even simple traditions are practised less today. Remember  ‘Debutant Balls’ for 16 year olds or families giving thanks before meal times and bedtime?

Ceremony brings focus, hope and comfort. It also brings closure, transition and meaning to some very important milestones in life. Personal daily ritual allows us to make conscious choices about how we wish to lead our lives and actually following through with these choices.

A ceremony can be created simply for all passages of life. Start by setting up a ‘sacred space’ in your home where you can have a variety of ‘tools’ to help you become more grounded and focused in your day to day life. A small table with fresh flowers and a candle or pictures of loved ones (both living or passed away) and some incense. The important thing here is to make it a meaningful place. Tend to this space daily and keep it free of clutter (just like a garden). Admire it as you pass by. Just let it sink into and become part of your domestic landscape.

Use this area for grounding yourself.  Sit and meditate or ‘unwind’ after a long day for just 5 minutes. Say a heartfelt poem or affirmation either out loud or to yourself, when you need help with any problems or issues you maybe experiencing.  For example, manifesting a new exciting job or envisaging a better relationship.

Creating ceremony keeps traditions alive in both communities and families. But most of all it brings us peace, enables transition and encourages a deeper awareness of the value of nature.  It also makes us more aware of the power within ourselves and our often forgotten connection to a greater spiritual force.